Boys in particular often have trouble speaking .

 There are many things you know, but there are times when you can't express them in words.

 Then I will prepare to speak in front of the principal's office and come in prepared and say, and if you say it in vulgar terms, I will take out the palm tree even if it is a lie.

 Ah, because the kids can only speak in words, they  often say things like, "Teacher, I have a cold today.

 What should I do?" Oh really? But if you think about it as a full-fledged way of speaking, it is said to be the most persuasive speaking style ever developed by mankind .

 I went on an experiential learning trip, and as the kindergarteners were walking by, their eyes were really wide open .

 I have tears in my eyes.

 Okay, yes.

 So I asked why and he said he wanted to go back to that place.

 Why was it that he could solve other subjects with effort, but he just couldn't solve math himself? If he had started studying math when he was younger, would n't his score have been a little lower? But it's  not often you see someone being so self-destructive.

 One day, after I graduated, he came to me.

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 Everyone, today's garden guest is.

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 We invited Mr.

 Park Jeong, author of the book, The Absolute Principle of Passing the College Entrance Exam .

 Hello? Yes, hello? I have been working as a teacher for 22 years .

 And when I was working as a teacher, I did a lot of work related to college advancement, and one of the things I did the most was this year as a mandatory training instructor related to pre-admission rights.

 So, in order for the admissions officers to evaluate, they had to attend my training and then do the evaluation.

 So, I worked as a teacher who taught the admissions officers for a long time .

 And I also served as a teacher who taught teachers by giving career advancement lectures to teachers at the Ministry of Education and provincial/metropolitan offices of education  .

 And now, I think the biggest topic that I have been thinking about for the past 22 years is how to develop children's ability to explore .

 So, we are doing various activities to foster curiosity  with the Provincial Office of Education and universities, and we are currently holding classes for children in Daechi-dong and Mok-dong .

  You have  observed tens of thousands of students for 20 years, and now you have observed their college entrance exam results.

 You have also heard various stories, not only about their college entrance exam results but also about how they live after entering society   .

 I think you have accumulated big data.

 Now, I would like to give you some perspective on that.

 yes.

 Beyond Sky Medical School, this guy really has a promising future.

 I think you can see these kinds of children, but  can you point out some characteristics of the parents who are raising these kinds of children ? In my view, if you think about the child's characteristics first, it's usually a child who is good at solving problems, rather than a child who is good at solving problems.

 Children who are good at thinking show great growth, and when I  consult with their parents, I find that the parents also  clearly have characteristics such as being curious or reading a lot of books.

 In the case of excellent students, when they read a book or something, they don't just read it, but they often ask questions while reading .

 Even when I teach, I usually tell students to read books while asking why and how .

 Even though children who read books like that read the same book, the speed at which they expand their background knowledge is different.

 Actually, there are some surveys.

 In a study targeting top students who went on to Seoul National University, Yonsei University, or medical school, there was    not as big of a difference in math and English as expected between top and bottom students.

 However, in terms of the national language, there is a difference in tattoo skills between the top group and the upper group .

 It's a difference in the ability to read and understand.

 The ability to understand includes the ability to literally understand the text, but there's a huge  difference in whether the child acquires the meaning beyond the text.

 Then, as the grade level goes up or the knowledge becomes more advanced, the probability that friends who have such reading habits will excel is much higher.

 At first, children are supposed to read along with the text, but as time passes and their reading ability improves, they       often satisfy their curiosity by looking at keywords in the book, doing additional research on those keywords, or reading other books that can solve their curiosity related to those keywords.

 The second characteristic is that such children now have excellent exploratory powers .

 You may think it is a bit abstract, but in reality, the ability to explore is not such a difficult word .

 If you solve it, you will have excellent self-directed problem-solving skills.

 But  some people think that this is abstract.

 But if you think about it again, it is self-directed, that is, it is excellent at solving problems on its own.

 So how does that ability come about? When you read a book, if there's something you're curious about, you usually  know how to find out.

 So,  it means knowing how to pursue knowledge.

 But I think this is very important for living in this world .

 People with good problem-solving skills will  find the right solutions to the problems they face.

 Among my students who went on to Seoul National University, there was a friend like this.

 My eunuch was a student of the religious world.

 But the CSAT score is 3rd or 4th level.

 A mock exam.

 But there are also children who are the opposite.

 Oh, when I took a mock exam in my first year of high school, there was a friend who got a grade of almost 5 on the CSAT but didn't do well on the school exam .

 I prefer the former.

 Because sincerity in school is often not something that can be taught .

 If that friend continues the process of reading a book and learning more about it  until the second or third year, the CSAT will also rise in June of the third year.

 On the contrary, there are not many cases where a friend who did not have good grades in the beginning but did well on the CSAT goes up in the third year or still does well on the CSAT .

 Ah, rather than simply making them focus on solving problems from the beginning, because we receive countless cases like that, we teach them to think .

 I think that if you train yourself to think a lot, eventually, even when you move on to the second or third grade, you will learn to think deeply, and children who think deeply will be  able to solve difficult application problems much better.

  hmm .

 Then the same goes for the essay.

  The essay is more difficult than the CSAT.

 yes.

 Then, in terms of essay writing and solving difficult math problems, those with curiosity are better at solving them .

 Children who produce good results.

 And even after that, when I looked at the kids who did well, I felt like they were kids with genuine problem-solving skills and curiosity .

 How should our parents foster their children's curiosity ? Could you please explain it to me by dividing it into periods? yes.

 First of all, I think reading is more important than anything else in elementary school .

 But now, it  seems that even experts have different views on reading.

 Well, is it okay to read comic books or not? I'm on the side that says it's okay to read for learning purposes,  but I'm someone who thinks that the process of reading is important, so I think how you read is much more important than what kind of book you read    .

 So I think it's important to read a lot in the lower grades in a read-aloud manner.

 The purpose of a reverse diary is to broaden your background knowledge .

 There was a talk about life and living things, and I  became interested in those living things.

 It's a way to broaden your horizons, whether it's reading another book that tells you a little more about dogs since you've raised a puppy at home,    or reading another book on the same topic by another author about dog training  .

 Even if it's shallow at first, it's good to work on broadening your background knowledge, and  when you do that, read a lot of easy and fun books rather than difficult ones .

 Let me give you this recommendation.

 Especially when you advance to high school, there are times when you need to use the reading method of deep reading.

 At this time, you should read carefully while reducing the number of volumes .

  I'm reading the book in a way that I can get as much information as possible.

 So, at first, you   need to read books in a way that they are broad, and then as you get older, you narrow the scope and create more depth.

 Especially when you read deeply, you ask a lot of questions like why and how.

 Even when I was in the lower grades, when I read books, I    think it is very important for my parents to ask me questions like why and how, and how can I find out?  It's similar when you're interviewing at a university.

 When I ask a person who came to the robotics engineering field what motivated them to apply, they say that they  dreamed of flying robots while watching animations since they were young.

 That could be motivation, but what the interviewer is asking is what specific activities you have done to solidify your dream .

 But even there, if you keep asking the question “why,” knowledge begins to take shape.

 Kids need to learn that.

 For example,   when you say, "I became interested in robots flying in the sky while watching animations as a child," your mother asks you again why that's fun and interesting .

 uh.

 One more time.

 Why did you ask? So, if I design something and operate it, the robot will carry it out, so I think that's really great.

 Then I have to ask another question .

 But why is that necessary ? For example, when a nuclear power plant accident occurred, robots went there and took action.

  When I  asked him why after seeing that, he said, "I became interested in robots that can perform various activities on behalf of humans in spaces where humans cannot," and it was a   different level of depth.

 The answer to the first question is reporting a flying robot.

 But the final answer is that I have become increasingly interested in controlling robots that can act in place of humans in spaces where humans cannot act  .

 Then you can ask me .

 And how can we pursue such knowledge ? If you don't know, you should look into it, and when I looked into it, I found out that there is control engineering and instrumentation engineering in robotics .

 We also explore programming and how to control robots.

 So, in elementary school, they become interested in books .

 And why and how do you sympathize with your child's interests, and then as they get older, you  need to teach them little by little how to solve problems from a knowledge perspective .

  I think that just  by having parents include why and how, their thinking ability can change completely and their ability to explore can deepen.

 Do you think that preparing for an interview like this would be a waste? yes.

 It is very important to continue practicing speaking after reading  .

 If you know knowledge yourself, you should be able to explain it in words .

 yes.

 There is a speaking model called Frap .

 Points, ripple points.

 Practice speaking in order a lot .

 The first blood is the question that is asked and answered.

 When you ask a question, it  feels like you're answering the question.

 Even though they know that they should speak in two different ways, most children speak in two different ways during interviews.

 Then, if the interviewer doesn't listen until the end, the   evaluation of a child who answers a question from the beginning and a child who doesn't answer because the interviewer doesn't listen until the end is bound to be different.

 So, good speaking is thinking of the question as the subject and answering it .

 For example, what was the most memorable club activity? Then what kind of kid was I? I was in the chemistry club .

 It's a perfect sight.

 yes.

 yes.

 So, I was interested in chemistry since I was young and joined the chemistry club .

 What does our club do? Just say this.

 But the question I'm asking   is, what was the most memorable activity you did in the chemistry club? What was the most memorable activity I did in the chemistry club?  So, in common parlance, you are telling me to solve it after I tell you the story.

 When I  ask them which book they have read and which impressed them the most, each child's answer is different.

  The answer is.

 Oh, I like that kind of person .

 Well, I really like reading books.

 There are many kids who start out like this.

 I can't say that all of the answers are wrong, but from the interviewer's perspective, what catches the eye the most is that the people who immediately get annoyed by a smiling word are smart .

 So what is the most impressive book you've ever read? What is the most impressive book you've ever read? I'm going to try to explain it later.

  It may not seem like much, but only one or two out of ten people answer like this, and these kids are bound to stand out.

 But what's surprising is that  one of the characteristics of children who read a lot of books is that they answer like this even though they never learned it from anyone.

 And I usually have this speaking habit .

 I only raise my sons, but I also worked at a boys' high school for 20 years, so I   often see boys who have trouble speaking.

 There are many things you know, but there are times when you can't express them in words.

 Then I will prepare to speak in front of the principal's office and come in prepared and say, " If you say it in vulgar terms, I will take out the palm tree even if it is a lie.

" Oh, because the kids can only speak in words, the correct way to say it is, "Teacher, why did I have a cold at night today?  Oh, really?" Let's talk about nouns.

 What line is it that makes me your friend? Or can't you speak in sentences ? But if we do this in full, Mr.

 P, I don't think I will be able to do the night self-study today .

 R is for Leeds.

 Because I have a very bad cold.

 2.

 I actually had a high fever yesterday and was up all night, but I took some medicine and it seems like I haven't fully recovered yet.

 Lastly, I will repeat this once again to emphasize, so if you skip self-study today, I will go to the hospital quickly, recover, and then study hard again.

 So, you can practice speaking in Frap even in everyday life .

 It is a speaking style used by the ancient Sophists, and is   said to be the most persuasive speaking style developed by mankind.

 Even in the current World Youth Debate Championships and other such events, if you look at the way children speak, they all speak in a Frap style .

 So, when Westerners are trained to speak logically or rationally or to write, they are taught in the form of speaking and writing in a prep form .

 So, when I asked what the most memorable club activity was, each student had a different answer, but for me, the most memorable club activity was the experimental activity I did in the chemistry club.

 So, the reason why R's activity was impressive to me was because through it I was able to understand the process and procedure of the experiment .

 Then, you can explain the actual experimental content there .

 I have experienced this kind of experiment and the process of deriving results from this kind of experiment many times.

 So, the last blood, therefore, was the most memorable activity for me in the chemistry club because I was able to learn the process and procedure of experiments and how to organize the results through the activities in the chemistry club .

 Children who are able to sufficiently explain why and how are better at writing reports and speaking .

 If you think about the school records  of children, they are written in a format that the examiners often find that there are many good things written in the records, but there is a lack of evidence, so they often cannot give extra points .

 Oh, but if R and E are especially faithfully entered in the form of a fret, then this is what he actually did and why he did it, and the individual's characteristics are revealed, strengths are visible, and reliability is gained, so this is a subject exploration reading, and in fact, regardless of elementary, middle, and high school, if I just repeat the practice of speaking and writing in fret, I can even use it to make a good school record .

 Once you train them to do that, they start talking at length .

 Rather than breaking it down into short sentences, if you explain it in terms of reasons, logic will emerge.

 yes.

 yes.

 And sometimes I tell my kids to use Frap when they fight with their mom, and for some reason, what they say seems persuasive.

  I really think so.

 But kids use it a little bit and make it funny like a gag .

 I know my mom is worried about me .

 What are you talking about? You're just talking in a frap-like manner .

 But I believe that it is necessary to practice as much as possible .

  He   often said that this topic exploration activity is important to foster curiosity.

 How can I help you? yes.

 yes.

 From the first curriculum, the main research activities and thematic research reports were very hot topics.

 When you go to college with a comprehensive academic program, you have to do a lot of research activities .

 But in fact, the basic topic exploration activity is also a topic exploration activity, such as a reading research report.

 Well, performance evaluation is also done as part of the topic exploration activity .

 But there are many times when children do not know the process and procedure of exploring a topic as well as they think, but if you think about it, it is similar to reading.

 If I want to do a topic exploration activity, I need to have curiosity.

 It has to be there first.

  There must be an area of ​​interest.

 Then, when I do research activities, the most important thing I have to look at is textbooks, and when I go to the university admissions office, there is a guidebook that provides information about departments and majors .

 He tells me to download it .

 Because it's true that the topic should be something that the children want to explore, but it should also be a valuable or attractive topic, and at the same time, academically, and I think it should match the topic that the university wants, whether it's the topic that I want to study or the topic that the university wants to study.

 Because you have to take the evaluator into consideration when carrying out your activities .

 But what I mean by considering that college is that I've done a lot of research on the department.

 That's the topic.

 What subject do you study about the Russian-Ukrainian war? Politics and diplomacy.

 But even in political science and diplomacy departments, we  don't only learn about the Russian-Ukrainian war.

 Normally, universities teach general knowledge, so they teach about war, but the Russia- Ukrainian war is a current situation, so most of the topics that universities want to teach are general topics .

 How can we resolve the reasons for conflicts between nations after war breaks out  ? So, when researching a topic, the first thing to do is to choose the right topic .

 The best way to choose a topic is  to look at the major fields of study at your university.

   As someone who has been active for over 20 years and is probably one of the most experienced people in the country, I can hardly find the topic for kids.

 I can't find an attractive topic .

 In those cases, I basically do this to appeal to the university to some extent .

 When you say that it is a topic exploration activity to get into college, you  need to do it while looking at the college's guidebook.

  I've been working in schools for over 20 years, but sometimes I get criticized for saying that children don't have dreams.

  I  think I had eight dreams when I was in my third year of high school.

 Really? For me, it's not a problem to have many dreams, nor is it a problem to not have dreams .

 But not knowing the exploration process is a problem.

 Even if you don't have a dream, you still have to explore various areas .

 But I never learned how to do a good performance evaluation.

 So I  tried to explain the process and procedures in as much detail as possible, and one of the know-hows I accumulated was to put the content elements of the textbook and the university guidebook together and decide on a topic.

 I want you to look at the field .

 After watching this video,  I think parents will want to actually do the topic exploration activities with their children at home.

  I'd  like to try this out with the guidebook down.

 Could you show me ? Recently, there has been a lot of talk about genetic engineering and other such technologies, and  there are many materials that explain things in an easy-to-understand manner for elementary school children.

 Then the keyword is genetic.

 And the university guidebook provides a brief explanation of what genetics is .

 Parents of younger students may need to explain things a little more clearly .

 Then, it would be a good idea to start your first topic exploration report by creating a good reading activity report .

  I  have to go to the bookstore and read those kinds of books, so I choose three or four books.

 Don't choose just one book, choose several.

 That way, you can gain a broader understanding of the background knowledge.

 After that, I would speak in a prep form or   write down the parts that I felt were the most important from reading the book and then use the keywords in the text I wrote as keywords to search for on portal sites like Naver or Google when I was in elementary or middle school.

   There are many blogs and such that explain things at an easy level.

 Then, for each keyword I'm interested in, I put one or three newspaper articles, Naver Cast, or blog posts in the report as if I were reading them and read them through.

 hmm.

 Then I try to translate it back into my own language.

 As I understand it.

 The beginning of a topic exploration activity is to express what you understand in writing, so reading a book, finding the main point, and the most important thing about that point is researching materials .

 I tend to use artificial intelligence a lot in research activities .

 I'm not saying that you should copy what AI says, but what AI is more useful than you might think when exploring a topic is selecting attractive topics and organizing a good table of contents.

 And while the content needs to be verified, it is necessary to utilize it a lot up to the stage of selecting a topic and organizing the table of contents .

 Among the trend organizations, there is one called the United Nations Environment Programme.

 Then I would like to do some research on the topic of flexible environmental planning .

 hmm.

 Please suggest ten attractive topics.

  If you   put in words like this at the elementary school level or the middle school level, they will organize the activity outline from the topic, and they will organize it much better than you might think.

 In the beginning, some universities penalized reports written using GPT.

 But these days, there are universities and professors who penalize students for not using GPT.

 Because if it's lip-eye technology, you have to use it well .

 I think it's useful when I use it not for the purpose of stealing knowledge and  submitting what someone else wrote without my efforts, but as a means to  quickly solve a few things in the process and procedure to assist my research activities  .

 I'm good at lying too.

 Uh uh.

 Oh, that's right.

  I will correct it.

 That's why it's great for real brainstorming, but you have to verify that it's real .

 yes.

  You have really looked into the career paths of many children and given them advice.

 yes.

 I would like to give some advice in that regard.

 How can we help our ordinary child, who has no special talents, find a good career path ? I'm raising a child too, but  I don't think it's that easy to help them find a career path.

 yes yes.

 But I think it's necessary to make children think a lot about those things .

 I think that career tests are important, but when you take several and compare them,  there are characteristics that I know about my child as a parent, but there are also times when characteristics that I didn't know about my child appear in common in the various tests .

 Then, we need to find out what other ways we can save this part, so we need to give the child many opportunities to explore career paths .

 Oh, you do n't necessarily have to do a job experience, you can also do book work.

 Among the children I taught, there was a friend who no longer had a dream even in his third year of high school.

 But when this friend first applied, his GPA was in the mid 2s, but he was ranked 4th or 5th in his class.

 He was a very sincere friend.

 uh.

 yes.

 Too sincere.

 So, even from my perspective, it seemed a bit dull.

 But I don't give up and I do it till the end.

 So much so that it brought tears to my eyes.

 In fact, there was even a certain event where I went on an experiential learning trip and there were kindergarten students walking by and their eyes were really wide open .

 I have tears in my eyes.

 Okay, yes.

 I look at the kids so much that I think they're cute.

 Do you want to get married already ? I was just trying to joke like that, but when I looked closer, it was like that.

 So why is that? Then he said he wanted to go back that way.

 why? If I had studied other subjects and worked hard, but I  couldn't solve math on my own, wouldn't my score have been a little lower if I had studied math from a younger age? Or maybe I should be born again.

 But it's not often you see someone being so self-destructive .

 One day, after I graduated, he came to me.

 The reason that friend came to see me was because he got a job, but since his career path was stable in his third year of high school, he  couldn't help but worry about which major to go to.

 Why do you want to go to college? What kind of person do you want to be when you go to college? What is your dream? But I think that stayed in my friend's mind for a long time .

 So, even though I went to college, I couldn't decide on a dream.

 hmm.

 But you learned how to find your dreams.

 It's been almost 8 years since I came here, and he said that the 7 or 8 years he's lived so far have been 8 years of me answering the questions the teacher asked me  .

 After that, he continued to worry about how he should live .

 But the reason I came to see you today is because I passed the exam and got my employee ID card, so I left work early and came to say hello .

 I  said, "This is my answer to the question you asked," and then my friend came back as a lawyer.

 After 8 years.

 But he said that he had been thinking about it since high school, and he realized in college that his dream was to find a way to help people who were having a harder time than him or who were being wronged  .

 Even though he didn't go to law school, he eventually found his dream and made it come true.

 So, for me, the process of exploring a topic or reading is not a different process, but rather a process of properly finding my dream.

 Then, even as an adult, your dreams can change .

 The question is, do you have the power to resolve such a situation on your own ? Oh, I can develop that kind of strength at school, but my parents can also help me .

 With the questions of why and how .

  Could you please give us  one keyword that you think is the most important thing in raising children ? There is only one.

 We need to develop the power of thinking.

 Only those who think can survive.

 I believe that friends who have the power to think   can live successful lives, whether it be in college entrance exams, college admissions, or in life after that.

 At this time, a successful life may mean making a lot of money or having a good job, but I think the power to live happily  lies more in a friend who has the power to think.

 So, especially from a young age, efforts to develop the power of thinking are possible through training .

 It's not an ability, it's an experience .

 I think that as you gain more experience in training, it leads to higher-level thinking skills .

 Children who develop a sense of inquiry actually have their attitude toward life change because of it .

 The process of exploring topics and reading will lead to the ability to explore, and that ability to explore will become the strength not only for college entrance but also for living in the world .

 And I  would like to say that parents clearly have a role to play in this.

  Hey everyone, how did you like today's video? If you found today's video helpful, please subscribe and like .

 We would also like to ask for your interest in our teacher Park Jeong's new book, The Absolute Principle of Passing the College Entrance Exam: Exploration Power .

 I don't know how to help you, especially with college admissions.

  I'm sure you have a lot of questions about writing your resume, but  they're all here.

 I strongly recommend that you all read it .

 Thank you for your valuable time today .

 Yes, thank you.