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if there's one weapon to develop that will give you all of the Charisma and irresistible charm that men and women find completely Unforgettable and irresistible that's being unreactive listen the difference between a woman who's always being chased and always being undervalued versus a woman who's always being worshiped and dying over is that one woman is reactive and the other one is not that's the only difference and the beauty about it you can learn it first of all why it looks like I have a a KKK thing on top of my head anyways it's not about being a narcissist it's not about being emotionalist it's about keeping your presence of Mind Under Pressure not reacting instantly when women possess this trait we interpret it as an air of authority and femininity they give you a sense that you can rely on them and if they are of the opposite sex you will find them irresistibly attractive possessing is silent Charisma that men will found over so today we're going to tell you some strategies to develop this non reactivity and take back your power no matter the situation and if you guys want to work with Father Alex 101 and want to apply these strategies into your life you guys can book a oneon-one phone call with me today and then you'll be able to learn how to apply these strategies today maybe you need help in your career maybe you need help in your personal life maybe you need help with your dating advice father Alex is hit a help now it is not a therapy session people you're just asking father Alex questions and I'm here to answers you guys can book one a call with me today by clicking on the description down below let's continue with the video everyone around you is try to get you to do one thing and that's react once they get you to react then you start to make mistakes once they get you to react then you stop doing the things that you know you're supposed to do it's a way to discombobulate you to split you from within so that you could become confused become scared and feel like you have no power they're trying to get you to forget the purpose of your actions to get you off your long-term goal and switch up to your short-term goal to get you to break your own rules for them now what is non-reactivity in this case non-reactivity is not about being a bunch of Terminators it's not about being cold but about the momentary space between yourself and your reaction that is the ne non-reactivity that we're talking about we're not talking about completely permanent non-emotion we're just talking about a moment of space between when you feel the emotion and when you start to react in that moment is your true power in that moment of silence is where our our our true Powers lie because that silence that space gives you the capacity to think straight that space gives you the capacity to think with most strategy what men and women are trying to get you to do when they try to get you to react is to forget about strategy like a boxer who got hit once and all of a sudden forgets about the purpose and the strategies they're using in the boxing match right non-reactivity is not taking action when you don't know what to to do when there's a situation and you don't know what to do and you being pressure to do something nonreactivity is saying I rather do nothing and let things pass than to make a mistake non-reactivity is about losing the battle to win the war non-reactivity is learning to calm yourself down so that you can think and act more clearly because I'll be honest with you people with low self-esteem only can feel good by getting you to react it's like for example when I used to be on Tinder there were girls AR tender that legit like and I and I and I know this Dees would make plans with guys just to cancel them like that was literally their plan and the reason why is because they liked getting men angry most likely in their life at one point they felt like they had no control so this is their their way to feel better about themselves pissing people off getting them to accept the date and then backing off in the first minute I mean in the at the last second and as a guy what happens is that you have two options when this happens you can either get really bitter and pissed off right or you can learn not to react to it and the problem is that a lot of guys just react to they get angry they develop negative belief systems about women that causes them to actually push good women away and it attracts bad women who are actually they to manipulate you the reactive the reactive part is when they win you getting angry at their inconsistency is when they win you getting angry at them pulling away is when they win when somebody notices that they're games and strategies doesn't get a reaction out of you that's when they start to lose that's when you start to see their true face and that's why it's so powerful to not react because it's almost like you created an oasis around you where everything where everything reveals itself every manipulator becomes exposed everyone who truly likes you be becomes obvious people who are only there just temporarily become more obvious to you and this non-reaction over time creates an ominous presence about you a silent and Powerful Charisma that emanates from you non-reacting is the ominous silence that arises that makes the opponent tremble on their feet it's the quiet power that comes from you when you're sick and tired of someone and you're ready to leave them it's the ominous silence that your boss tends to give you right before he fires you but this time it's not about firing people this silence this non-reactivity it's an act of strength a show of strength showing people that if you mess up long enough if you mess up with me I will walk away your games don't work with me I still like you and if I leave you it's going to hurt me but I am not going to react to the pain I am not going to go back I'm going to allow myself to feel the sadness the depression the desperation the neediness and I'm going to allow that feeling to go through you're going to feel your way out of that but you're not going to react to them you're not going to react out of impatience you're not going to win the battle to lose to war none of that's going to happen happen because that's what they're trying to get you to do another thing is that non-reaction is the capacity to find happiness from other sources other than the opposite sex it's finding other sources of positive emotions they are not your Center you react but you're not overreacting so your non-reaction is what gets them to react you and how do you create that well we're going to talk about that right but it's it's the point at that your you being immovable makes them movable it flusters them and above all it offends them yeah that's right people it genuinely offends people when you are non-reactive to them because it says to them I thought I was cool I thought they wanted me I thought they liked me and it's not about you don't feel emotions people you just know how to feel and get out of that feeling you understand the concept of object permanence and consistently I'll be honest with you every woman who has had this trait they've they've genuinely either been confident or they were narcissistic it's it's either it's either or but either way men still react to both of them the same way the difference is that The Confident Woman genuinely knows how to make connections the narcissistic woman only knows how to keep men at Bay and the sad part is that when when the narcissistic woman finds a man she loves what happens is that the man doesn't love her back right it becomes a very dark cycle so how do you do this well first of all you first have to develop the willingness to walk away first things first the willingness to walk away if you are not willing to walk away this strategy is just not going to work if you're not willing to walk away this strategy you're still going to be reactive because the unwillingness to walk away is your reactivity the mental capacity to keep your hand on the trigger to keep your hand on those on your short and and sealed consistently and be willing to walk away is what gives you the aura of non-reactivity it's what it's what allows you to look at someone bsing you and in your mind you're like yo keep up that [ __ ] I'm walking away and you don't have to say anything you just have to keep it to yourself keep that thought to yourself and all of a sudden it'll radiate from within like a condensation it'll just radiate from within right it's just the willingness to walk away and the way to do that is to when you meet people tell your mentally imagine yourself walking away from them even on the first date mentally allow yourself to imagine walking away sometimes you just have to allow yourself to imagine yourself walking away before genuinely walking away the next thing is mirror mirror their behavior if if there's anything that you could do that will fix most of your mistakes because you overreact is to mirror them usually you overreact to little things to to to too small behaviors meaning maybe they took too long to respond maybe they pulled away maybe they're busy right unfortunately when we get when we get minimal behavior from them our reaction to them is an exaggeration of behavior more calling more texting mirroring them protects you from that natural tendency mirroring them protects you from your tendency to over text to overreact to over pull away you literally remember them if they're pulled away out of five you pull away out of six if they're showing interest at a 10 at an eight you show interest at a seven if they if they if they took five hours to respond you took you take five hours to respond this requires control over your emotions this requires you not to let your fantasies and emotions and insecurities to take over and unfortunately too many of us have too many insecurities and when you try to apply this strategy it doesn't work because it doesn't you don't have the the emotional circuitry the emotional strength to be able to do this but mirroring is is the easiest thing to do because it tells you what to do if they cancel on you you cancel on them now look at this point we're getting Petty right at this point we're getting Petty if you if you got to use the marriage tactic to gain power over someone at that point you got to walk away but I know a lot of you guys are hardheaded and you guys don't want to do that but I'm just saying that for the people who comment on the videos who say oh this only works on Lo of te people hey I'm telling you why okay so don't stop commenting that we all get it you you know more Jesus Christ right so yeah the the mirroring part now what happens if you try to mirror but your emotions are too intense what can you do to to lessen the intensity I could show you something all right and what I'm about to show you is forbidden for me to teach but I'm I'm not going to show you the full system but I'm only going to show you a small part okay let's begin this let's let's sit down right here now what I'm about to show show you are the things that I did in my life to make me less reactive now I am not saying that this makes you like into a cold person but because me I'm naturally an anxious person and so I had to go on a journey that taught me how to be less reactive right and generally my journey started when I was younger I I was uh I was into Christianity and stuff like that but the point is with dating I was a really anxious person and so I did a lot of things to try to fix it right I would do iasa I would do shrooms therapy I did some therapy what I didn't like it too much but I did a lot of things and finally something worked and this is the thing that I'm going share with you what worked okay because these strategies no matter who you are no matter how anxious you are no matter how reactive you are they worked on me and I'm going tell you something about myself I'm a very hard-headed person right I'm very hard-headed but also I'm very reactive I was the type of guy that if I met you and you were nice to me and you were cute I liked you right that that's just how I am but the problem with that it caused a lot of women to be able to break my heart really easily right and and who I am now is not that I'm a colder person I really I'm actually warmer it's not that I am more of a Terminator it's not that I am emotionally distant I'm actually closer to people the difference is is that I know how to feel pain the difference is that I know how to feel and I know how to get through feelings rather than avoiding them when in the past I avoided pain and also I was more of an avoidant but these strategies makes it easier for you to to deal with pain makes it easier for you to be less reactive and what I noticed in my life is that through these strategies like it's much easier for me to make friends like women seem to like me a little bit more my friends like me a little bit more um and and even my subscribers like me a little bit more so these strategies work so sit your butt down and get ready cuz I'm about to reveal to you how to make this happen let's continue with the video when when things happen and you don't like it naturally your brain reacts to it right and the way that your brain reacts to it is that removes the tension from the body and you react to a mental to a mental image or a mental fragment something mentally but you react to it now look I explained this meditation in my course um emotional Mastery you guys can click on the description down below to purchase it if you're interested um but essentially it's it's like this um like I said when you're usually when things happen you're either saying I like it or I don't like it right you're always reacting to things mentally you're labeling the the sun comes up and it makes you happy maybe you see a kid trip that makes you happy um a [ __ ] horse trips and that makes you sad right so those things we're constantly judging and how do we create that judgment because our attention is in our mind now imagine this you see a horse [ __ ] walk by right but you're bringing attention to the hand okay you see a horse but your attention is deeply in the sensation of the hand your mind doesn't have the space to say I like this horse or I don't like it why because your hand you're fully concentrated on the sensation of the hand so the horse is passing by you feel the hand and now you're just observing horse you're not saying I like horse I don't like horse when you do that each time this happens it lessens the negative reactions to things somebody canceled a date right for example you're pissed off you feel the hand you feel the hand you're angry but you feel the hand now your mind doesn't have the energy it needs to create thoughts of what an [ __ ] oh no this I'm such a loser why because you're deeply concentrating on the hand when you're meditating you're sitting down and you want to get up you're feeling the hand or or you're scanning the body you're feeling a sensation and your mind says I want to get out I want to walk outside but you keep the sensation of the hand what happens is that if you keep focusing on the hand the emotion of wanting to stop meditating goes away way because you're not feeding it with thoughts you're not feeding it with your reaction and each time this happens the longer you can meditate each time somebody cancels a date on you or each time somebody breaks your heart by bringing attention to the hand you're able to dissolve those emotions you're able to allow yourself to feel it without judging it it's when you say I like it and I don't like it is when it stays with you but if you feel the hand and you feel emotion you're not saying I like it or don't like it you're just accepting it and what happens is that over time your reactions get lower and lower why because you are not feeding it with your Consciousness you're not feeding it with your ego you're bringing the attention on the hand which is where it belongs and you're removing it from the ego me they cancel this and they that and over time it'll H you will have this relaxing Aura this presence about you that is so charismatic so magnetic so calming so confident that even if it's the opposite sex will find that attractive but if every time somebody does anything that hurts you you react you go Bronx mode you [ __ ] take your earrings off you're feeding them every time somebody does something you you don't like and you bring attention to the physical sensation of your body you're not feeding it and over time it dies away now the next thing that you can do to become less reactive is to develop a is to literally be around other human beings literally the problem is that people are just too isolated so you're when you're is isolated your emotions become more sensitive more brittle you overreact when you are around people and you're feeling the presence of other people it it it lessens the overreactions to negative things it's important for you to be around people if you are not around people you're going to overreact you need friends so how do you do that well the way I tell people is if you like if you like to do things do things with other people if you like to draw draw with other people if you like to paint paint with other other people if you like to meditate meditate with other people if you like to do sculpture do sculpture with other people the point is is make a conscious effort to whatever you do on your own do it in the group if you like to hike join a hiking group if you like to um um [ __ ] sew so join a sewing group if you like to do cosplay join a cosplay group these things will allow you to do things that you naturally do on your own with other people and this is how you make friends and by making friends it'll lessen your emotional reaction I'm telling you because when things happen when things go wrong and you have friends you're able to talk to them and they're able to make you feel better and they give you some perspective but whenever you are alone your thoughts bounce off of each other and creates more overreaction people yeah that's right and this is how I developed non-reactivity it wasn't an easy Journey you know it it was difficult but this is how I did it and if you guys enjoy this content and want more in depth deep dive type of content you guys can purchase my courses and in there I go much deeper on these types of topics for example I have courses such as the psychological game of Attraction which is a course that I made for women who are single it's a course I would teach you how to go from not from meeting the guy to making him want to commit to you long term right I have natural chemistry which is a course for women who are in relationships and who want to establish their respect and want to create the type of chemistry that that is love but also the 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